January 22, 2026

Admiring the Art, Questioning the Words: A Thought on A.R. Rahman

 A.R. Rahman is undeniably one of the greatest musicians India has ever produced. His music has been a constant companion for many of us, songs like Yeh Haseen Wadiyaan, Premika Ne Pyar Se, Muqabla Muqabla, and countless others are etched deeply into our memories. For me personally, his music was more than just entertainment. During my Master’s days in the USA, there wasn’t a single night when I slept without listening to his compositions. I had a playlist of his songs playing through the night, it was my escape from pain, loneliness, and the challenges of that phase of life.


My respect for him has always been immense. I admired him not just for his success, but for the depth and soul in his music. Every Independence Day, Vande Mataram by A.R. Rahman was a ritual. No matter how many times we listened to it, it always gave goosebumps. His compositions were always ahead of their time. There was never any discrimination in how his music was admired, Alaipayuthey’s “Alaipongera” and Jodhaa Akbar’s “Khwaja Mere Khwaja” were equally celebrated for their finesse, spirituality, and brilliance.



Over time, it is true that the impact of his recent albums hasn’t matched the magic of his earlier work. But even then, Rahman has remained a significant part of our lives, especially for those of us who grew up in the 80s and 90s. He is a major part of our childhood, and our respect for him has always gone beyond anything else. We admired the artist, not anything beyond his music.


That is why his recent interview with the BBC came as a shock; not just to me, but to many across the nation. His statement suggesting that he stopped receiving opportunities over the last few years due to his communal identity drew widespread criticism. While some supported his view, many including ardent fans felt deeply disappointed.


My immediate reaction after hearing his statement was: Why?

Why was there a need to say this?

What compelled him to bring this up on an international platform?


From what I’ve read over the years through interviews of directors and articles, Rahman is known to be a perfectionist, someone who takes time to compose, prefers working at odd hours, and is also an expensive musician. Whether all of this is entirely true or not, it is believable. He is an Oscar winner, a recipient of numerous national and international awards, and someone who commands a premium for his craft. At the same time, the industry has seen the rise of many exceptionally talented composers like Pritam, Amit Trivedi, and Salim–Sulaiman, who resonate strongly with the current generation and evolving musical tastes.


Demand in any creative industry is dynamic, it changes with time, trends, budgets, and audience preferences. Whatever the reason for the decline in opportunities, attributing it to religion, especially in such a broad and sweeping manner, felt unnecessary and in poor taste. Instead of introspection or adaptation, the statement appeared more like deflection. As an artist of his stature, one expects maturity, the ability to accept competition, evolve with time, and focus on understanding what today’s generation connects with musically.


I strongly believe that no one in this country ever denied Rahman respect because of his religion. He was always celebrated purely for his work. His music transcended boundaries, beliefs, and identities.


Although he later apologized and reaffirmed his patriotism, the core issue was never about questioning his love for the country. The real concern was why such statements were made on an international forum, inadvertently projecting a negative image of the very nation that gave him recognition, respect, and success.


This incident serves as an important lesson not just for celebrities, but for all of us. Words carry weight, and when spoken by influential personalities, they can shape perceptions far beyond intent. Celebrities represent more than themselves; they represent their industry, their audience, and often their nation. A moment of emotional expression, if not thought through, can undo years of goodwill.


I sincerely hope this episode encourages public figures to be more mindful while giving interviews, especially on global platforms. Fame comes with responsibility, and wisdom lies not just in talent, but in knowing when to speak, what to speak, and where to speak.


Because sometimes, silence or thoughtful restraint can speak louder than words.

January 1, 2026

Happy New Year 2026!

 

A new year doesn’t arrive to pressure us.
It arrives to invite us.

As we step into 2026, many of us carry lessons from the years gone by—some joyful, some heavy, and some deeply transformative. The past has taught us one important truth: growth doesn’t always look loud or fast. Sometimes, it looks quiet and intentional.

This year is not about becoming someone new overnight.
It’s about becoming more aligned with who you already are.




🌱 Let 2026 Be the Year of Conscious Choices

Instead of rushing into resolutions, pause and ask:

  • What truly matters to me now?

  • Where do I want more peace, not perfection?

  • What can I let go of to move forward lighter?

Choosing consciously means:

  • Saying no without guilt

  • Resting without justification

  • Growing without comparison

When your choices come from clarity, your life begins to feel calmer and more meaningful.

🧠 A Calm Mind Is Your Greatest Strength

We often underestimate the power of a calm mind.
In 2026, let calm become your superpower.

A calm mind:

  • Thinks clearly

  • Responds instead of reacts

  • Builds confidence from within

You don’t need to control everything—just your inner state. When your mind is steady, challenges feel manageable and decisions feel simpler.

💛 Growth Without Pressure

Growth doesn’t always mean doing more.
Sometimes, it means doing less—but with intention.

This year, allow yourself to:

  • Grow at your own pace

  • Learn from mistakes without self-criticism

  • Celebrate progress, even if it’s invisible to others

Remember, consistency matters more than intensity.

🌸 For Parents, Professionals, and Young Minds

As adults, the way we live becomes a lesson for those watching us—especially children.
When we choose balance, self-respect, and emotional awareness, we quietly teach the next generation how to do the same.

Let 2026 be a year where:

  • We listen more

  • Judge less

  • Support each other better

✨ An Intention for 2026

Instead of a resolution, try this intention:

“I choose clarity over chaos, calm over pressure, and growth over fear.”

Let this be the year you trust yourself a little more, slow down when needed, and move forward with confidence.

🌟 Wishing You a Meaningful 2026

May 2026 bring you:

  • Peace in your thoughts

  • Strength in your decisions

  • Joy in everyday moments

  • And the courage to live aligned with your values

Happy New Year ✨
Here’s to a year of calm minds, strong hearts, and conscious growth.

December 19, 2025

Honouring Legends Is Great — But What About Our Own Future Legends?

India recently witnessed the unveiling of a 70-foot statue of Lionel Messi. As someone who genuinely admires Messi and his contribution to world football, this post does not come from a place of disrespect or negativity. Great athletes inspire generations, and Messi is undoubtedly one of the finest players the sport has ever seen.


However, admiration should also invite reflection. And that reflection led me to ask a simple, honest question: What does unveiling such a massive statue in India truly achieve for us as a nation or for the future of football here?




Thoughtful Discussion:

There is no denying Messi’s greatness. His discipline, consistency, humility, and achievements are lessons for athletes across the globe. Fans celebrating him is completely natural.


What feels confusing, however, is the scale of celebration, especially when it comes in the form of permanent structures like statues in a country where football infrastructure, grassroots training, and opportunities for young talent are still limited.


Interestingly, when temples are built, festivals are celebrated, or religious rituals like Abhishekam take place, a certain section of society is quick to question:

“Why spend money here? Why not build schools or hospitals instead?”


That question, whether one agrees with it or not, suddenly seems to disappear when it comes to celebrity worship, be it cinema or sports.


This is not about religion versus sports.


It is about consistency in thinking and accountability in priorities.



On Fan Culture & Reality:

Many fans spent ₹5,000 or more just to catch a glimpse of Messi during his visit, and ironically, most didn’t even get a clear view. That level of passion shows how deeply people love the game.


But imagine if even a fraction of that collective passion and money was redirected towards:

  • Training young footballers
  • Creating local academies
  • Sponsoring underprivileged kids with talent
  • Improving school-level sports infrastructure


Wouldn’t that create a much deeper, longer-lasting impact?



Adios, 

Vrinda

October 23, 2025

The Silent Struggle of Teenagers: Peer Pressure and Feeling Left Out



In today’s hyper-connected world, many teenagers still feel disconnected — surrounded by people, yet feeling alone.
The pressure to “fit in,” to be liked, or to appear perfect can be overwhelming. Social media adds another layer, where comparison quietly steals confidence and joy.


Many kids I meet share how they:


💭 Feel left out in groups or school circles
💭 Struggle to find “real” friends who understand them
💭 Pretend to be someone they’re not just to belong


Here’s what I tell them and what we, as parents, teachers, and mentors, can remind them too:


🌸 You don’t need to fit in; you need to find where you belong.
True friendships are built on respect, understanding, and shared values, not trends.

🌸 Invest in yourself.
Develop a hobby, skill, or passion that makes you feel proud and confident. Confidence attracts genuine connections.

🌸 Speak up.
It’s okay to say when something makes you uncomfortable. Boundaries protect your peace.

🌸 Be kind to yourself and others.

Sometimes, the person who seems most confident is also struggling silently. A little empathy goes a long way.


To every teen feeling left out remember, you are not alone. Your uniqueness is your strength, and the right people will see your light. 💫


#TeenMentalHealth #PeerPressure #EmotionalWellbeing #ElevateU #Teensupport #LifeCoaching #SelfConfidence

March 8, 2017

Happy Women's Day!!!

Hi All,

I'm writing a post almost after 2.5 years and thought today would be the best day to make a comeback with a BANG! As it's a women's day this post is about being a Strong women: Be one and Raise one!

When I was a kid my grandmother was diagnosed with cancer! She accepted the fact and came in terms with it but her only concern was who will take care of me after she’s gone. She got treated but doctors have given her life span of 3 years more. She was so determined to live, she didn’t want to leave me until I’m settled in my life. To everyone’s surprise she lived for 17 more years. That is just because of her strong will to take care of me and see me happy with a nice guy. She’s the one who raised me since I’m 6 months old and loved me unconditionally throughout her life. Yes, her love was purest at its form. That’s the reason I designated the highest position in my life to her and always called her AMMA. I can easily say that she was the strongest woman I’ve ever seen in my life by seeing the way she fought with the deadliest disease.

When I opted to go abroad for higher studies, she said just one thing enjoy your freedom but lead a regret free life. Trust me, being in a free land with no one to question you around and still being in your bounds is a tough thing at times. I’ve seen toughest days of my life being away from my loved ones, but I was always determined to face the situation as I did not have a choice, I had to be strong.  My friends who know me for long used to admire on my composure. Some of them who’ve known my AMMA personally would say I imbibe lot of qualities from her, but I think I still have a long way to go to be someone like her.

Whether it’s a son or a daughter raising a strong kid would be every mother’s motto. Of course, I would like to give my son unconditional love, but more than that considering the present state of society I feel it is very much needed to teach him to value the independence of woman, not to be judgmental about her, to treat her with respect and be chivalrous to her and share the load of house hold work too. As I see many kids define the role of mother from very young age i.e. she is fit to cook food, feed and change diapers that’s all.  Inculcating good values from the very young by each and every mother who has son would build a better society for our beloved daughters.  I’ve realized raising kid is not easy only after I became mother. I wish I would be able to raise my son just the way my AMMA raised me. 

Cheers,
Vrinda

September 7, 2014

My art trials

Hi All,

It has been very long since I posted something on my blog, there's a gud personal reason behind myself being so occupied. Though I'm occupied my art trials were still going on, here are few of those sketches made with pencil and pastels. Share your views on these ...





Cheers,
Vrinda

February 3, 2014

Art therapy

Hi All,

I recently joined art classes, since then I started my tryouts on pencil drawing. The class is basically for Acrylics, but my teacher started teaching drawing. So far I didn't understand her motto behind it, but I just follow her instructions.  The last pic is the one which I made it in the class. 







Cheers,
Vrinda

Admiring the Art, Questioning the Words: A Thought on A.R. Rahman

 A.R. Rahman is undeniably one of the greatest musicians India has ever produced. His music has been a constant companion for many of us, so...